Scandalous People; Shameless Acts

~~Sunday, August 24, 2008~~

10:23 PM

WEEK 7 OF SIP HAS ENDED AND THERE IS STILL NO PAY. DAMN STEADY ONE, TWO, THREE, FOUR...... (And on and on and on)

I believe that there is a saying that goes like this - If you are willing to learn, you will be able to do it (Idea there la, mai gei gao =D). Things like soccer or basketball, you can pick them up by training. After undergoing massive trainings, you will acquire them as one of your skills. I label these as "Trainable Skills". In my opinion, there are some skills that can't be learnt. At least, not that easily.

For sports, you can get a teacher to teach you and train everyday. Those "Un-trainable Skills" I'm talking about will be more like Communication Skills or Social Skills. However, the focus of today's topic is about the Art of Decision Making (Do I sound like a lecturer?)

Yes. Maybe some of you might say that there are courses or seminars to teach people how to communicate better. However, I still don't think that it will benefit much or rather "increase your skills in that area".

Decision Making in my opinion, is the hardest thing ever on Earth. There is always 2 sides of a coin to choose from and which side will u choose. Its HIGHLY IMPOSSIBLE to be in a win-win situation because if there is, YOU DON'T EVEN HAVE TO CHOOSE. Normally, humans being humans will choose the option that will benefit them. And humans also being humans will also feel guilty if the decision they make is favourable to them but not to others. This is the reason to why I feel that "Decision Making" is a very complicated matter. Still using the same reason, when humans are in a 进退两难 situation they will probably "run away" from the decision making by remaining silent or looking at other people with a "I hope you can help me decide" eyes.

This is a rather large topic and due to time constraint (I need massive amount of sleep), I'm gonna stop here. =D

Quote of the day: One man's meat is another man's poison

Unscandalous - Gabby